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“Al Qaeda in high-heels”
Are American men now the most hen-pecked in
the world? And are female ‘domestic terrorists’ stalking US
homes one of the biggest untold stories in American society?
The authors of a new study of men (and their
children), who are the victims of abusive relationships by
women, feel the time has come to spring clean some of the
secrets that have been swept under too many domestic
carpets.
For more than a generation “woman’s
liberation” has put women in the ascendancy in the western
world – good thing too – their time to come was long
overdue. But has female emancipation gone too far and now
turned into a new form of tyranny?
Have society and the courts that have given
women the benefit of the doubt in assuming they are the
“weaker sex” got it wrong?
Mary T Cleary and Roy Sheppard the authors of
the new book “Venus: The Dark Side” believe that in the
pursuit of female liberation, society risks scuttling the
rights and independence of men and their children.
“Venus: The Dark Side” explores how a small
minority (but large number) of women choose their male
victims to manipulate, deceive and abuse. They will stop at
nothing to get what they want, all the while, smiling
sweetly. Their abuse is often psychological. Because this is
unseen, they often get away with it.
Abuse visited by women on men is wreaking
havoc in the lives of millions of innocent Americans.
Abusive women, they claim, are misusing the law by making
false claims; some of a very serious nature, that often go
unchallenged.
The authors are courageous is exposing the
fact that despite decades of the demonization of men who are
accused of domestic violence, the incidence of domestic
abuse of men by women is almost the same as men abusing
women.
Mary T. Cleary describes these abusive women
as “Al
Qaeda in high-heels”’.
With just cause:
One innocent man described his experiences at
the hands of his violent wife;
“I felt a thump, but I didn’t know my wife
had stabbed me in the back until I looked down and saw my
shirt soaked in blood, with the tip of the kitchen knife
sticking out the front of my chest.”
And before someone shouts “woman haters!” For
more than a decade Mary T. Cleary has helped male victims of
domestic violence. And before that, as a nurse, she treated
men with injuries that could not have been “by accident” as
many of them claimed in their misguided attempts to cover up
the abuse they suffered.
Part of the problem is the veil of secrecy
that men choose to draw over their own suffering or they
walk away to then be accused of abandoning their children.
But while men are the victims of unpublicized
physical, psychological, financial and even sexual abuse in
the home, it is their children who are as likely to be the
victims of abuse. A staggering one million children get
caught up in American divorces – every year.
Some surprising facts emerge from the book
that turns conventional wisdom on its head:
·
56% of all child abuse is perpetrated by the
mother.
·
A biological father is statistically the
least likely to abuse their children (8%)
·
After divorce, a mother’s new boyfriend often
has more access to a father’s child than the father himself.
These boyfriends are statistically the most likely men to
abuse a child. Some judges know this – others should!
Since it was published in the UK, the authors
have received horrific stories of how innocent men and women
in the United States have been abused and falsely accused of
all manner of non-existent crimes.
These men are the true victims who are often
powerless to defend themselves or their children. This book
offers them practical help.
Glenn Sacks, the US father’s rights
journalist wrote: "Venus discusses
an important phenomenon of the modern era - the unscrupulous
woman who uses the protection of the family and criminal law
systems as a way to plunder men and gain revenge against
them. We hear all the time about how men take advantage of
women, but the opposite is at least as common. Venus does
important work in bringing that side - the 'Dark Side' to
light."
For more information about this book (or its
British title “That Bitch: Protect Yourself Against Women
with Malicious Intent”) visit
www.VenusTheDarkSide.com or
www.Amazon.com