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These are some of the personal stories we have received from men and women who have read this book
Thanks I just wanted to give a shout out about your book. Nice work! I wish I had read it before I got married. (I am now divorced, thank God.) I was a victim of a great deal of emotional abuse and manipulation during my marriage by a woman who was a master at portraying herself as the victim and me as the perpetrator. This woman constantly hemmed and hawed about her troubles and how everything was everyone else's fault, including mine. Then, when the divorce got under way, she turned into the nastiest, most aggressive and selfish person I had ever seen. I'm a pretty tough guy, but I was floored by it. Thank God I had some good friends and I had picked up your book before the ordeal was finished. Needless to say, I was left broke because she took all my money. That, and she immediately violated nearly every term in our separation agreement - that a judge had just stamped. More must be done to uncover the ruthless ways of such women. I think a big problem is that most men have a 'Do The Right Thing' mentality. What we don't realize is that a bitch has no version of the "Right Thing' other than getting what she wants. The result is that we unwittingly subject ourselves to round after round of emotional blackmail and abuse until we just can't take it anymore. We give in, give the bitch what she wants, and then she goes on to the next victim. You don't have to be physically abused to suffer. More must be done to highlight the emotional abuse so many men withstand in relationships. I think it is an even bigger problem than physical abuse.
The evil that lurks in scorned women...
To whom it may concern,
I have been the victim of not one,
but two consecutive back to back evil and vindictive women ever to
have walked the face of this earth. My first was a woman I
completely trusted with my life and all my money. She was a real
estate broker and she convinced me to give her my money to co-invest
with her on several properties and when I did (blindly I should say)
she ended up (when our personal relationship was over) lying about
our agreement and keeping all the money and properties. I was so
stupid because I let her keep all the properties in her name...What
a fool I was. So I have a pending civil suit in court right now and
we're to go to trial in February. She filed a "restraining order"
on me to boot because that was the only way she could get me out of
one of our homes. Nice girl..huh??? I'm so devastated over her
betrayal and I'm still reeling over being penniless, jobless and now
homeless.
Fast forward several months after
this 1st betrayal and now I meet this woman online. She and I talk
on the phone for over a month and she tells me if I don't come to
see her then she has to come see me. She tells me everything I want
to hear and she plays with my already fragile and overly sensitive
emotions. We meet and the chemistry is electric. I fall in love
with this woman and she wants me to move in with her...fully knowing
my bleak financial situation. She turns out to be a multi
millionaire and convinces me that she doesn't care about whether or
not I have any money...she just wants "to be loved". Well, she got
all the love I had inside to give to her, but it never seemed to be
enough. I gave her my heart and my soul and she still never seemed
to be happy. Her own son said she thrives on drama and chaos which
is partly why he has to go to therapy.
It turned out that she, like my
previous ex has a drug and alcohol problem (mixing ambien and wine)
and it was causing me great pain and agony. I never have even tried
a drug in my life and i certainly don't like to drink, so this was a
source of great discomfort to me. She also tried to stab me
several times with her (human growth hormone) needles and sick her
guard dog on me for no reason. You ask me why did I put up
with it? Well, I truly believed that God had put these women
in my life as a test and that they needed me as much as I needed
them and because this last relationship her son committed suicide in 2000,
and I felt compelled to help her "heal" from the pain she was going
through...just like i thought she was put in my life to help me
"heal" from the betrayal of my last relationship.
I thought we were both on the right
tract with moving forward towards a healthy and happy life
together. Until, she needed to stir things up again. She wasn't
happy being complacent with me and being in a "normal"
relationship. She then started getting verbally abusive towards me
and ended up throwing me out with nowhere to go and with no money to
move with. I was again completely shocked and stunned at this
betrayal when all I ever wanted from both of these women was to be
loved for who I am. They both knew I've been depressed over the
loss of my Mother and my career as an actor was slowly slipping away
and they both supported me in my struggle to find my place in this
world. They both had gotten me so emotionally and financially
dependant upon them that it seemed when I truly needed them the
most, is when they decided it was time to cut me loose.
I'm so devastated by it all that I've
contemplated suicide and I wish God would just take me in my sleep
so I won't have to suffer anymore. I am barely able to breathe and
stay afloat and if a miracle doesn't happen to me soon, I will be
living on the streets because I have nobody left who truly cares
about me.
God? Mom??? Please send me an Angel
quick before I die from this loneliness and despair....PLEEEEZZEEEEEE???????????
The Vulture
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